That's what my mom asks me every couple of weeks - what's your number now? Meaning - how much weight have you lost? 61 pounds.... in 3 1/2 months! Yea, me!
Some people are really offended this question. People are amazed at how fast weight loss surgery (WLS)patients lose weight. They can't believe how much we lose in such a short amount of time. Honestly, I find it hard to believe and I'm living it. However, I don't find the question offensive. It's a badge of honor. I say it with a smile on my face.always.
Now, don't ask me my what my weight is or how much I weighed at the beginning of this process. I'll share that one day, but for now, it's.none.of.your.business. I think that goes for most women :-) I pack a lot in this 5' 3.5" frame - not as much now, but still more than necessary.
The next comment is usually something like, "well, you look great... not that you didn't before, but you know what I mean." Yes, I know what you mean. I always follow up with "I feel great." I mean, isn't that what's really important? Being healthy, feeling good and having energy is fantastic! Of course, fitting in clothes that I haven't worn in YEARS is awesome. Not having to shop in the "big girl" sizes is awesome. Knowing that my husband can put his arms all the way around me is awesome. And knowing he can now pick me up, if needed, is awesome.
I have about 33 pounds to go before I reach my goal. The weight is coming off a little slower than I'd like, but it's been "hellish" hot. Exercise has never excited me, but in this heat... forgettaboutit. Plus, my new bike had a flat tire. Really.flat.tire. Like, 1 minute after pumping it up, it's flat again. So, I have a new tube in the tire and now waiting for afternoon storms to pass. I know, I could be exercising inside. Who wants to do that?
